When Holiday Joy Feels Out of Reach

The holidays are often portrayed as a season of joy, connection, and magic, but for many of us, they also bring emotional overwhelm, grief, stress, and the pressure to “stay cheerful” even when we don’t feel that way. In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, licensed therapist and mom coach Vanessa De Jesus Guzman explores why holiday joy can feel out of reach and how the emotional load of the season affects moms and families. With humor, honesty, and practical insight, Vanessa breaks down the emotional spectrum of the holidays and offers mindful tools to help you navigate the stress, mixed feelings, and expectations that come with this time of year.


EPISODE DESCRIPTION
In this conversation, Vanessa explains why so many people struggle emotionally during the holidays and how factors such as grief, change, overstimulation, and family expectations impact mental health. She also shares the difference between clinical depression and the “holiday funk” many moms experience, and introduces mindful practices from her Mindful Living Framework, including awareness, temperance, and intentional action. The episode includes a grounding gratitude meditation and intention-setting exercise to support emotional regulation during the busy holiday season.



This episode covers:
• How grief, transitions, and emotional burnout show up in December
• The difference between depression vs. emotional overload
• Why moms often feel pressure to be joyful
• How mixed feelings during the holidays are normal and valid
• Tools that help regulate your nervous system during stressful moments
• How to reconnect with yourself when joy feels out of reach
• A short guided meditation to help you reset and ground


TUNE IN TO LEARN

• How to recognize when holiday stress is affecting your mental health
• Signs that indicate true depression versus seasonal overwhelm
• Why naming your emotions reduces holiday anxiety and tension
• How micro-pauses and mindful moments help calm your body
• Practical ways to release unrealistic expectations during the holidays
• What creates authentic, sustainable joy
• How gratitude and intention-setting can shift your emotional experience


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Free to Be Mindful Podcast episodes are for educational purposes only and should not be considered as or substituted for therapy or professional help from a licensed clinician.